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The Power Of Decision

There are things we may not have control over. And there are things we do. The situations that occur in our journey may be out of our control because we cannot control other people. But we do have full control of how we react towards the situation.  Ever notice that when you are in a pissy mood, it’s like every other situation after seems like a disaster? It’s actually not the situation that is at fault. It’s your reaction. I’m not saying that you can’t be upset or angry. But understand that if you hold onto that emotion, that energy will attract more of it. Why? Because your perception of the situation now has the ability to shift how you view...

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Who Are You Without Materialistic Objects?

Do you spend time with being true to yourself and what you want for yourself? Or are you too focused on following the trend, comparing what you have with those you surround yourself with, or see on tv/social media/ads? Without the ‘things’ you have in your possession, who are you? What do you truly want for yourself, in your life? So you want people to remember you for the objects you have or for the ‘being’ you are? Plenty if us live in this bubble where we believe we are defined by what we have, rather than being acknowledged for the being that we are. So let’s take away all the unnecessary objects out of our life. Who are you?...

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Do You Have A Goodness Allergy?

There are people out here who have a “goodness allergy.” They are so focused on the negative that they don’t even notice how good they may actually have it. They don’t expect anything good would happen to them. They even come up with stories to justify why “good” can’t happen for them.  Being allergic to good leaves you dwelling on your past. You stay stuck, consumed by the pain of your past. In fear that maybe you don’t even deserve anything good. Or maybe, if you allow the good to happen, you won’t have anything to complain or be negative about. If everything is “good” that could mean you are happy. Oh no!!!!! There’s no need to be in victim...

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Are You Firm On Your Boundaries?

We tend to go outside of our boundaries to satisfy others. Not realizing that the more we step outside of our boundaries, the more we have a chance of losing ourselves (as in our self-value, self-worth, and self-esteem.) When you don’t feel good about yourself, you tend to continue to do things that will make you feel worse about yourself, just to satisfy the other persons needs.  Who are you? If you aren’t being real with yourself, you are being a slave to your own lies. These lies may end having control of your life, if you allow it. They will leave you feeling lost and unhappy where you will be tempted to seek for outside validation. Not realizing that...

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Acknowledge Your Inner Child

What do you tell your inner child self? We seem to have great advice for others but do we take our own advice? How do we talk to ourselves? In order to attract love, we need to love ourselves. We attract the same energy we give ourselves. Think about how you would educate a young child. You would tell them how life will be full of ups and downs. To focus on one thing at a time, enjoying each moment. To appreciate the good in every situation and person they come across. Don’t ever doubt that you aren’t good enough. Not to be afraid of making a mistake because it will lead to abundance, with the right tools.  Our growth...

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