Not every woman is a mother. But every woman is a daughter. In order to become the women we are meant to be, we must start with ourselves as daughters to address the early patterns that were laid down in the earliest days of our lives.
The mother/daughter relationship is one of the most powerful relationships that humans can have. It is also one of the most ambivalent, conflicted and challenging.
The process of separating and individuating from mothers is generally more difficult for women than for men. This is because of the gender identification between mother and daughter, which may cause the mother to unconsciously push a son to differentiate from her much more than she would her daughter....
We have to take the risk and summon the courage to love and validate ourselves even though we may have never received this from our mothers or from the culture.
Even though we’ve never had the models we needed, we’re being called to step forward anyway and be the women that we’re being called to be.
We’re being called to take the risk to fully bless ourselves and one another, even without the external approval of family and society. Are you willing?